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i'm a 22 yr old male and overall i have a lot of self-confidence..im abt 6 ft tall, ppl say im good looking, played varsity ball, and im a pretty popular guy but theres one thing thats been causing me a lot of anxiety and killing my self confidence..im a religious christian and although ive went out with many girls i've never had sex and im currently going out with a girl who i think i may want to marry but theres one thing thats really bothering me...this may seem very stupid but i think i'm very small in the pants. its only like 4.5-5 maybe 5.5 inches long and although most people say size doesnt matter it makes me very self concience and i'm afraid my wife wont enjoy sex as much as she would with other guys and it actually depresses me. can anyone help me out with this?? i'm not sure how though...is there any way to make it bigger? i know this sounds so stupid and u may be laughing but this actually depresses me. thanks!Being a fellow Christian, I'll say myself, when God picks someone for you or anyone, He picks someone who is perfect and compatible for you. And, if your wife is also a Christian herself, when you both have sex the first time, the size of your penis isn't going to matter because your marriage is ordained by God and you waited until marriage and that's what's going to be important. Don't worry about it.
Really, don't.You sound like a very nice person. I am going to be as frank as I can on this site: The average mans penis is 5 1/2". You are average. Don't look at the guys in these movies and books, they are freaks in the penis category. Some of it is photography angles. Anyway, don't worry about that. Now, I don't know how well educated you are with regard to what makes a woman happy in bed. Most women want a romantic lover, take it slowly moving down her body from face to lips lightly then more fervently, letting your hand run over her stomach before touching the breasts, work around the sides then gently rub the nipples (don't pinch them). Move your head from the face to the breasts and gently play with your tongue, while moving the free hand down her stomach finally reaching "third base". Most of what makes women feel good is done from the outside of her body not inside and you need to learn about her clitoris which is usually what brings them to sexual satisfaction. If you are successful she will want you soooo badly that it won't matter what size you are and if you are like most guys will be so excited, it might get bigger. Ha.
I hope this helps, I'm trying to be honest with you as a female married happily many years.I don't think there is wat that u can get it bigger and 5.5 inches isn't that small and if she doesn't like ur size then she is not the rite one for uNegative emotions (like sadness, stress, anger, etc.) causes your Serotonin production to be low; when your Serotonin level is low, you are more prone to getting Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Depression, etc.
Medication like Antidepressants (SSRI - Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitor) helps to boost Serotonin level.
But there are natural ways to do it without medication. There's this strange herb called "St John's Wort" - it is said to be more effective than Prozac. No, it is not for mild depression only and ignore those sayings. In fact, it does help anxiety and panic-attacks as St John's Wort works like prozac. Other natural ways will be exercise, diet, more exposure to light, etc.
The problem is that, even if your Serotonin is balanced... you have that "learned behavior" in your mind. You need to break that initial cycle to destroy that learned behavior - Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) does this. A technique that you can use without CBT will be Distraction... There are several other techniques to help cope them!
Ok, to use Distraction: Firstly, try to....
Extracted from Source.Your penis size is average. If she really likes you the size won't matter. I am sure you know how to use your hands and other body parts, so use them to make up for what you feel you lack. I don't think there is anything on the market that actually works to enhance it's size. God made you that way for a reason. Leave it alone.Sounds like the average size to me, that's about how big most guys are. You shouldn't be worried, women useually don't even have orgasms from penetration alone, so your skills in other areas can make up for lack of size, even though your really not small, you're the same size most men are. So don't fret.I was a virgin, married a virgin. He confessed to me shortly before we got married that he was a long time in developing and thought that he was really little and that I wouldn't enjoy sex. Nothing has been further from the truth. Granted, I've never been with anyone else, but he more than satisfies me.
If you feel that God has led you to this woman, don't you think He would provide for you to be compatible sexually as well?
I've just been married 6 months so the husband and I are still exploring and learning, but trust me, what you have is fine. Most of a woman's pleasure actually comes from clitoral stimulation which penis size has zero bearing on.
Trust that God has given you what you need to satisfy your wife! Bigger is not necessarily better. You can learn together what gives her the most pleasure and I guarantee that doesn't mean you getting bigger. If she's had a lot of partners that isn't even an issue. Women push babies out that opening and are still satisfied with sex afterwards.
Best of luck to you!You cant make it bigger, but you can be great in bed, Unfortunatelly that is related to experience, which you dont have.When you are going out with girls please do not think of the size of your penis and develop anxiety, loss of confidence etc.but think of the girl whom you like and engage yourself in the thought and action of fore play in the first instance.
This action if liked by your gf may spontaneously erase all your doubts of a small penis.
Generally it is not the size of the penis that plays a role but its performance!
And you may also remember that it is not the penis alone that a female wants in the male, though it may be one of her desires, as the wants of a female may be taken as multifarious and may vary from person to person.
And your 5.5 penis is not a bad size.
So you are advised not lose self confidence but proceed!
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